Wanting to be there for others, not give up on anyone too soon, forgive and forget, be gracious and humble... can work you into a corner. A corner where you become a prisoner of others expectations. The idea that you may be missing out on the opportunity on "what could be" becomes your motivation.
Having direction, being strong, knowing you can tackle any obstacle... can work you into a corner. A corner where any diversion from the plan becomes unacceptable and unfathomable and it becomes your motivation to do the opposite.
Graduating to not giving a fuck... breaks the bonds of those personal prisons and the prisons that we allow ourselves to be sucked into, that are built by others.
Freedom, is Amazing & Awesome.
No longer feeling stagnant not being ashamed of being strong and knowing you are destined for greatness. Having a clear vision of how you will get there and becoming confident that the diversions are all part of the plan.
No longer being concerned with the feelings of those who do not consider yours. Finally making options out of former priorities. Doing things in accordance to your needs and wants. Putting yourself and your well being first. Realizing that it's not always worth it, that if they were really worth the time, you wouldn't have to work so hard.
Knowing the only limits you have, the only walls to keep you trapped are the ones you allow to be built up around you, choosing not to sit in the back seat, but to take the wheel and make sure that you are the one driving, not sometimes, but all the time. Admitting that you are further along in realizing your potential, that you are smarter than most, better than all of the bs, and that your drive and ability will only scare the unworthy.
Never giving up the power, or allowing yourself to be in a position to be driven by the actions and the shortcomings of those bent on taking you down with them, but taking the higher road.
The satisfaction of being free...
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