State of The Scene

So lately I've been having several conversations with my homies about the state of the current dating scene. It seems like currently everyone is encountering the same difficulties. Hopefully, it's a cyclical thing, and the trend will subside soon, lol....





Manners...

Or rather the absence of them. When did it become cool to pull someone's hair you've never met or to grab someone's ass you don't know. Those are the extreme cases of course. But even the little things like properly introducing yourself to someone seem to be disappearing. At first I thought it was just the younger guys coming out with no home training but I and my girls are seeing this lack of respect in the men who are supposed to grown as well.




Indecisiveness...

Indecisiveness seems to be on the rise as well. How come you can't just go out on a date with someone and just see what happens. I'm indecisive myself, but if I'm going to go on a date with you then I'm agreeing to be open to what may or may not happen. No one is saying you gotta have the world figured out, because I don't think that any of us do but dang at least be solid in the decision to be open.




Reverse Gold-digger...

When we hear the term Gold-digger, you automatically think of a chick looking for a guy with money to pay her bills and buy her things and what not. It seems though that there is a trend more so lately for guys to want a chick to take care of them, monetarily. I honestly am more of the mindset of splitting things. Sure it's nice for a guy to pay for things, and if it makes him feel more like a man to do it, then I won't rock the boat and force him to let me pay. I just think it's good to take turns or if he's paid for a few things then I'll be like let me get dinner this time. It should be that way. The way that you spend your time and money or great gauges as to show how much you value someone, because if you're not willing to give those things then you're not really feeling them. It's just an interesting trend to see guys who are completely unashamed of being like I want a chick to take care of me. I know I'm an independent type who likes to take care of myself likes making my own money to pay my own bills and what not and it would be nice to be with someone who can take care of me financially but I just want them to be able to do it, not actually do it. So yeah, maybe instead of going from one extreme to the other things will work themselves closer to the middle.

~*ENTOURAGE*~

Yes, it is that time of year again, well almost. I'm so excited for JULY 12th to come so that I can start watching Season 6 of Entourage, definitely one of my most favorite shows! I remember when they got to Season 4 or so and I started getting worried that like a lot of other shows before them that it would start getting stale or old or stupid, and I'll admit for a few episodes I was like "Seriously???" but they definitely bounced back and I am just bursting with anticipation to see what's going to happen this season, so get the DVR's set and ready to go! YAY!

The Big 5-0

So for Daddy's 50th Birthday and also Father's Day gift the brother and I got him a watch. It's not super fancy but it is a Bulova watch and it's great quality silver facing real leather strap. I'm just having a hard time figuring out what to get engraved on it. I was just going to go simple with "Happy 50th Birthday!" Or maybe I should get the date something like "To Dad On Your 50th Birthday 6/21/09". I guess I'll figure it out. I'm actually excited for the party, it's always nice to just hang around at his house and eat good food and relax. I'm sure what to get on the watch will come to me soon. I guess it better, lol, not like there is much time left.

Woooosaaaaaaaah

Oooo, This one pulls at the heart, more than a little bit... I'm sensitive but not uber-emotional, but yeah....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7WUKHRTfeM






Style of your hair,
shape of your eyes and your nose,
the way you stare
As if you see, right through to my soul,

It's your left hand and the way
that it's not quite as big as your right,
the way you stand in the mirror
before we go out at night,

Our quiet time,
your beautiful mind,

They're a part of the list.
Things that I miss.
Things like your funny little laugh,
the way you smile or the way we kiss.

What I noticed is this:
I come up with
something new, every single time
that I sit and reminisce.

The way you sweet smell
lingers when you leave a room,
(you leave a room)
Stories you tell as we lay
in bed all afternoon.
(all afternoon)

I dreamed you now every night
in my mind is where we meet.
(my mind is where we meet)
and when I'm awake
staring at pictures of you asleep.

Touching your face,
invading you space.

They're a part of the list.
Things that I miss.
Things like your funny little laugh,
the way you smile or the way we kiss.

What I noticed is this:
I come up with
something new, every single time
that I sit and reminisce.

Oooh, and you'll live in my memories forever more I swear.
And you'll live in my memories forever more I swear.

They're a part of the list.
Things that I miss.
Things like your funny little laugh,
the way you smile, or the way we kiss.

What I noticed is this:
I come up with
something new, every single time
that I sit and reminisce.