I already know the backlash that will come from this. I can hear it now "Here we go again, another "angry black woman" talking about how good for nothing men are." Well that's not what this is at all, whether you believe me or not. What this is-is a personal statement about what I keep seeing over and over again. I don't know maybe I have something on my forehead that says if you qualify as being any or all of the following: Stupid, Unfaithful, Afraid of Commitment, Afraid of being Happy, Unable to cope with being treated right, Afraid to be in love, unable to say what you mean and mean what you say, Unable to follow through, Already un-trusting of all women, and/or unable to be truthful in the first place about what you want and what you can and can't handle... then I'm the chick for you.
It's all bullshit. Men are so quick to get offended, or tell you how they are not like every other man out there. The only problem with that is all of you mother f****** are saying that. You don't know the other men out there like we do. I'm sorry to tell you that most of you are the same. You may vary in aspects of your lives but it seems that most of you handle situations similarly.
The main issue I have is that guys are so quick to say that girls are crazy, or complicated, or both. Yeah there are some complicated girls out there and yeah there are some that are crazy and love drama and that play games and etc., etc., etc. Just like with guys! Some of you all love drama, love to play games, and are crazy! But when you continue to meet guys and your friends continue to meet guys that repeat the same cycle of getting involved only to a point or getting involved realizing they have gotten too involved and then finding a way to get out of it. It makes you think that well hey most of them have to be like this then. If I were interested in a "bad boy" or an unintelligent thug or the guy with the biggest dick and I got screwed over every time that would be on me. But when you are actually interested in a nice guy a guy who has a confidence about him, yes, and who is cool in his own way, yes, but overall just a nice guy with some goals and who wouldn't mind being with a chick that is nice and has some goals, and all you keep finding is that those dudes are hella messed up, it is really difficult to believe that there are guys out there that are what you are looking for. It's hard to believe that any guy is good!
I wish someone would prove me wrong. I dare you too! Until that day I don't really know though. It's all just too confusing.
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